Many of you will say now really... how bad can it be? Perhaps you are making too much of it. Give it a chance...go with the flow...Don't judge a book by it's cover...and so on.

Trust me it can be very bad. Especially if you are vulnerable and just coming out of a major funk from being dumped. Your confidence is shot and you are holding out hope that maybe, just maybe, this one is not a freakshow!

And which is worse: the date doesn't know that she is completely and totally inept or doesn't care if she is? It is immaterial what the issue/s is/are that put you off...clothing, personality, attitude, background, employment status, manners, education, religion, politics, etc.